LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

It’s become a big deal when u are doing the long distance relationship (LDR)…..

There are so many challenges that u face…. 

When u are at here but ur partner is in another place, both of u are separated with the place, time, zone…

No often a couple can stand with this relationship, we often heard that a relationship end because the distance thing. But should we always end our relationship just because the distance thing???? I believe that u don’t want this thing happen to u… 

A distance will not make a difference

Here are some tips that can help u to defend the LDR:

1.    COMMITMENT

A commitment is an important point for u to defend ur relationship. When u make a commitment, u have made a promise…

A promise is nothing without the action, when u promise to be devoted, u have to act to be devoted too…

Sometime a commitment can give u strength to face the challenges ahead… Maybe u will have a quarrel with our partner, but with the commitment that u n ur partner have made, it will give u a passion to handle these conditions…

 Remember that you're still in a relationship…

2.     COMUNICATION

Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible.

Tell each other about your little things that happen with u or ur environment. Ask for advice. Use an instant messenger program like yahoo messager, facebook, MSN for real-time chat, or web cams . E-mail is great thing to do, especially for long distance relationship, talking on the phone will probably spend a lot of pulses.

One thing to remember, a communication between u and ur partner isn’t a communication because there is a spare time, but u have to provide a special time to communicate.

3.      TRUST

Trust is sth that is difficult for us to get it, when u have gained that trust, u have to defend it.

When u live a long distance relationship, trust is a key which u should have. Without the TRUST will be difficult for u to defend the LDR.

Try to give a confidence to ur partner, it may make him/her feel valued.

But u have to remember to not believe in him/ her just. Believe it not only with heart; let ur logic is also running.

4.     SELF CONTROL

Avoid jealousy and be trusting.

When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. As a girlfriend/boyfriend, our partner need an understanding from u, don’t always perform at our interrogation every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven't met or he/she didn't get back to you right away when you called and left a message.

Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn't mean your lives will pause. Your partner has a social life where he/she lives and so should you. You should both maintain your social activity and always be happy with yourselves.

Be positive thinker.

don't always think a negative part of sth.

A negative thinking dont give us any advantage, it just can give the horrible day of ur relationship.Being away from your sweetie is not a bad thing.

Think positive...
The LDR may teach u to be more creative in ur relationship, u have to think the new style of communicate...

5.     TRUST IN GOD

There is nothing without the hand of God working.

A relationship that is not acceptable for the eyes of God is just a mere futility.

Pray for ur relationship, ask the Lord whether he/she is ur life partner or not.

LET GOD WORK ON UR RELATIONSHIP…

These are all the tips that I can share with u all…

Wish that these tips might help u to build ur relationship…

My last tips is….

WHEN U START A RELATIONSHIP WITH ATTENDANCE, FINISH IT WITH THE MEETING ALSO….